[CLBS] Engagement Ring
William J. O'Connor
will at williamthelawyer.com
Wed Mar 12 10:49:17 MDT 2014
I do not disagree, Blair. The basic gift elements exist:
1. Donor offers;
2. Donee accepts: and
3. Possession of gift is transferred.
I hope that’s right; I’m going off memory from contracts.
So right now the ring belongs to the bride-to-be and she loses the ring if, and only if, she or the donor call of the marriage. My understanding is that Idaho recognizes this rule.
It seems that one of the parties would need to break off the engagement, though not necessarily the relationship, for the ring’s ownership to transfer to the original donor.
William J. O'Connor
O'Connor Law, PLLC
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On Mar 12, 2014, at 10:39 AM, D. Blair Clark <dbc at dbclarklaw.com> wrote:
> But it's still a conditional gift, right? That was my point. It vests in
> her subject to defeasance, as opposed to being still vested in her fiancé
> until the wedding when it becomes hers. If it's vested in her now, then I
> think it's property of the estate.
>
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> -----Original Message-----
> From: CLBS [mailto:clbs-bounces at admws.idaho.gov] On Behalf Of William J.
> O'Connor
> Sent: Wednesday, March 12, 2014 10:28 AM
> To: Randal French
> Cc: clbs at admws.idaho.gov
> Subject: Re: [CLBS] Engagement Ring
>
> Here is some case law from other states, the majority of which agree that
> the ring must be returned to the donor regardless of fault. Just a few
> years ago, the Supreme Court of Pennsylvania stuck steadfastly to the
> no-fault reasoning and decreed that the donor should always get the ring
> back if the engagement is broken off, regardless of who broke it off or why.
> Lindh v. Surman, 742 A.2d 643 (Pa. 1999). Over 20 other states have the same
> rule.
> Justices on the Supreme Court of Kansas, which also adopted the no-fault
> rule in 1997, detailed the difficulties that they imagined would be theirs
> with a fault-based approach:
> [S]hould courts be asked to determine which of the following grounds for
> breaking an engagement is fault or justified? (1) The parties have nothing
> in common; (2) one party cannot stand prospective in-laws; (3) a minor child
> of one of the parties is hostile to and will not accept the other party; (4)
> an adult child of one of the parties will not accept the other party; (5)
> the parties' pets do not get along; (6) a party was too hasty in proposing
> or accepting the proposal; (7) the engagement was a rebound situation which
> is now regretted; (8) one party has untidy habits that irritate the other;
> or (9) the parties have religious differences.
>
> Heiman v. Parrish, 942 P.2d 631, 637 (Kan. 1997).
> Here is some from a Pennsylvania case that considers fault of the break up
> to determine which party gets the ring: Pavlicic v. Vogtsberger, 136 A.2d
> 127, 130 (Penn. 1957).
>
> William J. O'Connor
> O'Connor Law, PLLC
> 355 West Myrtle Street
> Suite 100
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> On Mar 12, 2014, at 10:17 AM, Randal French <RFrench at bauerandfrench.com>
> wrote:
>
>> I would be concerned about this. But my first thought is that an
> engagement ring worth $6,000 at retail might well be worth $600 to $1200 in
> the real world, so you may not be exempting $6,000. You might have your
> client investigate what a ring like hers would sell for at a used jewelry
> store or a pawn shop, or talk to your local trustee and see what their
> experience is in selling jewelry. My view is that jewelry has a value to
> the estate of about 10 to 20% of retail value.
>>
>> Do not forget your wildcard exemption of $800 that you can apply to any
> tangible personal property. You can exempt up to $1,800 of value using
> both.
>>
>> I think that the analysis Will provided is accurate and would apply in any
> non-bankruptcy court one litigates in. That would be because there it is a
> 2 party dispute between giver and receiver. Bk is a dispute between a
> debtor and all of the assets of the estate, on one side, and the trustee
> representing all of the creditors of the estate, on the other side. My
> concern is that this is bk court, and the fight is always whether one party,
> the fiancé, gets all of the value of any asset or whether all creditors
> share in the asset. If you have to go to court to litigate the issue, then
> the client is already paying for the asset in additional litigation fees and
> running the risk of loss. I would be concerned that a trustee might argue
> and a judge might conclude that the fiancé may have a claim against the
> client for the value of the ruling if they do not marry, but not the
> ownership of the ring. A trustee might argue that this fits in the secret
> lien or interest category.
>>
>> Good luck.
>>
>> Randy French
>> www.bauerandfrench.com
>>
>>
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>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: CLBS [mailto:clbs-bounces at admws.idaho.gov] On Behalf Of Sarah
>> Bratton
>> Sent: Wednesday, March 12, 2014 10:02 AM
>> To: clbs at admws.idaho.gov
>> Subject: Re: [CLBS] Engagement Ring
>>
>>
>>
>> I do not believe Idaho has any case law on point but I agree with William.
> The general "modern" rule is that an engagement ring is a conditional gift
> in contemplation of marriage. So it's not hers until the marriage occurs. I
> vaguely remember this coming up in a bankruptcy case once and it wasn't a
> problem. Though in my case it was less expensive so probably not worth the
> litigation to the Trustee, the outcome might be different if the value was
> higher but I don't believe so. I would list it on the SOFA as property held
> for another.
>>
>> Good Luck.
>>
>>
>> Sarah B. Bratton, Attorney
>> Martelle, Bratton and Associates
>> sarah at martellelaw.com
>> Eagle, ID 83616
>>
>>
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: CLBS [mailto:clbs-bounces at admws.idaho.gov] On Behalf Of William
>> J. O'Connor
>> Sent: Wednesday, March 12, 2014 9:42 AM
>> To: Megan Johnson
>> Cc: clbs at admws.idaho.gov
>> Subject: Re: [CLBS] Engagement Ring
>>
>> I do not have case law that I can cite, but I recall that the general
> rule, at least from common law, is that an engagement ring is a gift that is
> contingent upon the marriage occurring. If the engagement is ended other
> than by marriage, then the engagement ring would go back to the fiancé
> (former almost groom). That is why some wedding rings (like my wife's), is
> a combination of her engagement ring and an added marriage band received at
> the time of the wedding. Traditionally, if the would-be bride said "no, I'm
> calling off the wedding," she would then give her former would-be groom the
> engagement ring back.
>>
>> It seems to me that she is holding property for somebody else currently,
> but you may have a problem, especially depending upon when the marriage date
> is set for, because she has a contingent interest in the engagement ring.
>>
>> Good luck!
>>
>> William J. O'Connor
>> O'Connor Law, PLLC
>> 355 West Myrtle Street
>> Suite 100
>> Boise, ID 83702
>>
>> Office: 208-344-5095
>> Fax: 208-424-3100
>>
>> On Mar 12, 2014, at 9:33 AM, Megan Johnson <megan at sandpointlaw.com> wrote:
>>
>>> Good morning all:
>>>
>>> I have a client whose fiancé just proposed, and now she has a
>>> beautiful $6k engagement ring. I can only exempt a little over $1,000
>>> - which would mean she would have to buy back the ring from the
> bankruptcy estate, after just
>>> receiving it! What do you think of the idea that the ring isn't really
>>> hers until they get married, which won't be before we file?
>>>
>>> I would appreciate any insight you might have on this!
>>>
>>> Thanks,
>>>
>>> Megan
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> Megan L. Johnson
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